"I feel really helpless, I don't want to force her or make her feel guilty. What should I do?"

It is important to communicate openly and honestly with your partner about your feelings of powerlessness and the desire not to force or make them feel guilty. It may be helpful to seek support from a healthcare professional or psychologist to explore these feelings further and find healthy ways to address them. It is important to prioritize your partner's well-being and communicate effectively in order to work through any challenges together.