"I want to be able to have a normal libido for my boyfriend but this medication is preventing me from doing so."

It is possible to try medications like Wellbutrin or Abilify to help with your libido while taking antidepressants. It is important to evaluate the reason for taking Venlafaxine to find the best treatment option and not worsen any anxiety that may be present. These medications require a prescription and can be discussed with your pharmacist who can suggest it to your doctor. It is possible to keep taking Venlafaxine and add a small dose of the other medication to help with your libido.